So, I asked ChatGPT to arrange my schedule this week. It's the second day, and so far, sinunod ko lahat nung sinabi nya sakin, though hindi ko masyado nasusunod yung oras, nagawa ko naman lahat ng tasks.
Mag message daw ng 10 non-TM na kakilala ko para ipromote yung course ko-- done.
Mag email daw ng 20-30 contacts ko from TM to do the same--done din.
Nag post din ako ng course outline sa iba't ibang Facebook groups. May isa na ready to enroll na, kaso taga Malaysia sya, so ayun. Negs.
Nakakaba. Pero mejo nakaka excite din pag gumagawa ka ng bagay na hindi mo usually ginagawa. Sa totoo lang, natatakot ako.
Pero sabi nga ni ChatGPT, "this is not your side hustle, this is you MAJOR COMEBACK."
Pakers. Kaya ko tooo!!
Anyway, feel free to visit our FB page, or enrol kayo if gusto nyo matuto mag Nihongo. If you send a message there with "Hi Cinderella", I will give you 300 peso discount. *wink, wink*
06:12 PMにcinderellaareus によって書かれました。
The past few days were emotionally difficult. I was filled with fear and shame, and heck, I couldn't even blame anyone for it, because I knew it was my own doing.
I admit my mistake. I am forgiving myself. I am moving on.
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Kahapon, I accompanied Mom to attend to Kuya Jerry's wake in La Loma. The travel was about 3 hours, one-way.
When we got there, Mom's "Tiya" welcomed her with a warm hug. That tiya was her late Tiyo's ex-wife. Like Kuya Jerry, "Tiyo", his late father, also had wives. Mom worked for them as helper and yaya when Kuya Jerry and his siblings were very young. Mom was around 17, and I was born over a decade later. The "kids" (kuya Jerry's siblings) seem to love and respect Mom. Kuya Jerry was 50 and he was middle child. Their youngest sibling is about the age of my brother (41). I think about 1 year older.
When I was younger, we often met at family gatherings. I remember Kuya Jerry often said, "ay, ito yung paborito ko, matalino to e", whenever he saw me. Kahapon, when we were preparing to leave the house, I wasn't thrilled at the thought of having to interact with relatives, and then resolved to thinking na, "ah, makikipag kwentuhan nalang ako kay Kuya Jerry," only to remember na sya nga pala yung namatay.
When we were already settled sa wake chapel, and Mom and Tiya were already chatting, I heard an audible "plop" sound. Then I found that a single flower fell from the funeral wreath. Wala namang hangin dun. Walang gumalaw nung flower arrangement. Ni wala ngang tao near the area. Kusa lang syang nalaglag on its own. It must be a coincident, sure, but I couldn't help but think na, "aba, Kuya, may pa flower ka pa." Coincident or not, I took it as Kuya Jerry's pleasant greeting, and a loving farewell.
Nung pauwi na kami, it was only then that Mom decided to check the coffin. Tapos, pinilit ako ni Tiya to look too, even after Mom told her that I was scared of corpses. She convinced me na hindi naman daw nakakatakot at "parang natutulog lang". Of course, I wasn't convinced. But she treated Mom kindly, I didn't want to embarrass someone as nice as her, so tumingin na ko.
Kagabi, kahit antok na antok na ko, I was so scared of sleeping. I beg God to prevent me from seeing Kuya Jerry on my dream. I mean, I also saw Tita E, a week after she died sa panaginip ko. Though that dream was pleasant, I don't think I enjoy seeing dead relatives on my dreams. I even told Kuya Jerry, "wag ka po magpakita ha."
I only managed to sleep past 2AM. Thankfully, no dreams of Kuya Jerry on it.
50. I know he could've done so much more. But I also believe that he managed to live a good life. I think reaching 50 is already an achievement considering na 7 year old palang sya e may sakit na sya sa puso. I pray that God will give Kuya Jerry His mercy and forgiveness. May Kuya Jerry rest in peace in the arms of Lord. Kung totoong may langit, sana nasa langit sya.
03:55 PMにcinderellaareus によって書かれました。
Four is yon in Japanese. And also shi. And shi also means death.
Another relative died today. Si Kuya Jerry. Relative namin on my mother's side. Kuya Jerry had spent some time sa ICU, then today, pumanaw na sya. Heart and kidney failure. Sabi ni mama e bata pa daw so Kuya e may sakit na sya sa puso. But he managed to live until 50, had wives (yes, plural), had children. Siguro, him living for that long had already been a miracle.
Grabe, sunod sunod ang namamatay na kakilala namin. Hindi pa nakaka 2 weeks nung mamatay si Tita (father's side).
Rest in Peace, Kuya Jerry. He's mom's cousin. Technically my Tito.
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The company called. Said I'm scheduled for Berlitz assessment tomorrow at 4PM, but until today, wala pang email sa meeting link. Well, they can take their time.
Bahala na. Naniniwala ako na may mga bagay na kahit di mo effortan e kung para sayo, e sayo talaga. So bahala na. The job sounds like it needs some high level of proficiency sa language. I wish I can say na confident ako sa Japanese language skillls ko, kaso hindi kasi talaga.
Basta. Bahala na.
06:07 PMにcinderellaareus によって書かれました。
I woke up fresh from a dream this morning.
Pagpasok ko sa room ko, na currently in real life e room na ng cats, nakita ko dun si Tita E, my tita who passed away a week ago. Dun sa dream, mejo bago pa yung room ko at walang mga pusa. Pagbukas ko ng pinto, I saw Tita E with her back facing the window, looking at me. Maaliwalas ang mukha nya at medyo humaba ang buhok. She was smiling. The first thing she asked me was, "anong pangarap mo?" To which I answered with, "yumaman". She laugh good-naturedly. She then asked me kung anong trabaho ko. Hindi ko maalala kung ano ba ang sinagot ko dun. Tapos sabi nya, "ako may trabaho na". She mentioned na tinulungan daw sya ni Nene (my cousin na inaanak nya). I was guessing she meant na tinulungan syang humanap ng trabaho. She started searching for her notebook as if to show me something about her job. Kaso, ayun, nagising na ko.
Dreaming of the dead usually scares me, but I was kinda happy when I woke up. Pinagtataka ko lang e bakit naisipan ni Tita na dalawin ako. Mom said, "paborito ka kaya ng tita mo." I never felt that though. She used to give me a lot of stuff. She was an OFW. And everytime she came back sa Pinas, lagi syang may pasalubong. 3 pairs of gold earrings, 1 white gold necklace, 2 gold necklaces (with pendant), 1 gold pendant (without necklace), 1 gold ring, stuffed toy, pabango, small book-- ito yung mga naalala kong gifts na narecieve ko kay Tita bukod pa sa mga chocolates at hair accessories. All the jewelries were real gold and pawnable. Sabi ni mama, ako lang daw sa pamangkin ang binigyan ng mga jewelries. Yung pinsan ko na inaanak nya, hindi daw binigyan. Her reason was that, sakin daw kasi, nakikita nya yung mga binigay yan. The ones she gave sa mga daughters-in-law nya, naisanla na daw. I think she knew though na yung iba sa bigay nya, kahit di namin sinanla, e nawala na. Like, all the earrings e kalahati nalang. I still have the necklaces, except sa white gold one na winala ng kapatid ko. Still, emotionally, I don't think I was Tita's favorite whatsoever.
It could be just a dream. Baka hindi naman talaga nya ko dinalaw. She's been gone for only a week afterall. Pero kahit ganun, I felt reassured na mukhang happy sya dun sa dream. I asked chatgpt to interpret the dream for me, and it said na I have ancestral blessings daw. Yay, I guess.
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No contact from the company. I wonder if nagbago na ang isip nila about my application. I hope they'll let me know sooner para makapag start na ko with my other project. Sana nga totoong may ancestral blessings ako. I may not be the most kind-hearted person in the room. Alam kong masama ang ugali ko, and I have terrible temper. But in my heart, I want wealth because I want to give my family and pets a good life. I can live simpler, but that won't do kung meron kang mga taong inaalagaan. Magsisinungaling din ako kung sasabihin ko na I don't want good things for myself. Damn, I love good things. I want to eat good stuff. Visit good places.
Well, I guess I just want to justify why I deserve blessings. I hope my ancestors are really blessing me.
04:46 PMにcinderellaareus によって書かれました。
Final interview. Next step is Berlitz. Berlitz na naman.
I asked if ano ba yung need nilang JLPT level. E N2 daw. I am only N3. So, I don't really know what to expect. I took Berlitz before, and the results was N3. Will it be any different this time? Sure, pwede akong mag gambatte and try to score higher, pero ano? Pag dating sa actual work, kamote?
Hindi ko alam. Hindi ko nga rin alam kung gusto ko ba to. Their terms are super ideal though. It's a miracle I've gotten this far.
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Burial ni Tita E yesterday. Makikipaglibing dapat kami. Nakahanda na yung damit ko. After breakfast, I took a bath. Tapos derecho sa kwarto na nakabukas ang aircon. Bigla akong gininaw. Lumabas ako ng kwarto kung saan walang aircon. I still felt weird. I felt nauseous. Tumitindig din yung balahibo ko. I told Mom and Dad. Thinking na magiging okay rin agad yung pakiramdam ko, umupo muna ako sa my dining area. I was feeling weaker by minutes and the sick feeling was getting worse. I rested my head sa dining table, but it didn't help getting me better. Mom tried to take my BP. Nag error yung monitor. To check if sira lang ba, Mom tried it on herself. Gumana naman. Pero sakin, even after several tries, hindi talaga gumana. Error parin. I was feeling even worse then. It was hard to raise my arm for Mom to put on that clothe thingy of the BP monitor around my arm. Mom said ang putla ko rin daw.
Umakyat ko sa kwarto, turn off the aircon, nag jacket at nag kumot. Ginaw na ginaw ako. Aalis yung karo ng 10AM, it was past 9AM then, so I gave up the idea of going. Magpapaiwan sana si Mama to take care of me, but I told her to go. I knew she wanted to. Sa 3 nights na naglamay for Tita, we were there every night. I was actually looking forward na makipaglibing 'coz that was the rare time na makikita ko yung mga kamag-anak namin na hindi ko usually nakikita. Tokwa, nagkasakit pa ko. Only Mom and Dad ended up going.
I described my symptoms to chatgpt. Sabi nya e THERMAL SHOCK daw. By the time na nakabalik na sila mama galing sa pakikipaglibing, I was wearing 3 layers of jackets, 2 layers of fluffy blankets, tas naka medyas at pajama pa ko, pero giniginaw parin ako. I asked mom to give me hot drinking water. After kong uminom, medyo nawala na yung ginaw, and after about an hour, pinagpapawisan na ko.
Feeling ko tuloy, hindi ako pinasama ni Tita sa pakikipag libing. Or baka nagkataon lang. Okay lang din.
RIP nalang po, Tita. I know you're in a better place na.
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Hindi ko maintindihan kung anong nararamdaman ko. Malulungkot ako at mag-aalala kung hindi ko makukuha ulet ang work na to. But at the same time, I don't feel thrilled about going back to the corporate world.
Gabayan at pagpalain sana ako ng Langit.
05:35 PMにcinderellaareus によって書かれました。
Tita E passed away the night of May 14. Last night was the first night of her wake. Ayoko ng corpses. Ayoko sanang pumunta, but the other option was to be left alone at home ng gabi, so sumama nalang ako kila mama. Ok naman. Hindi ko nalang tiningnan yung kabaong. I got to talk with my cousins and it was fun. Mom and Dad plans to go there again tonight. Every night until the burial, actually. Ayoko na. Kaya ko kayang maiwan mag-isa sa bahay? Gah.
For some reason, it doesn't feel as scary as back when my 18-year-old neighbor died. Siguro kasi mejo expected na yung nangyari kay Tita since she had been sick for a while, and she was already spending some time in the hospital.
Rest in peace, Tita E.
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Para sa unemployed, ang daming ganap, at hindi ako magkandaugaga sa gawain. I am trying to finish a project, pero hindi ko maasikaso dahil panay ang alis naming mag-anak. I also have an ongoing application, though hindi naman talaga ako nag-aapply these days because of the project I've been working on. Final interview ko sa Monday. Nung binasa ko yung review ng company e parang hindi maganda. Bahala na.
Law and contract-related yung work. Engineering ang educational background ko, at mostly IT naman ang work experiences. Hindi ako masyadong nag-eexpect, but I still happened to pass their assessment.
Kung matutuloy to, I will need to make a few changes sa plans ko with my ongoing project. Since wala namang masyadong progress, okay lang rin siguro. Best part sa company na ito e 3x a month lang ang work onsite. The rest e WFH. Sabi ni mama e maganda daw kung makukuha ako. Hindi ko alam. Kinakabahan din ako. Pakiramdam ko kasi e higher level ng Japanese ang need dito. Pero tokwa, I need money na.
Naniniwala ako na minsan may mga bagay talaga na kahit di pilitin e mapupunta parin sayo. Hindi ko alam kung anong mangyayari. Bahala ka na, Universe.
04:37 PMにcinderellaareus によって書かれました。
So, before dinner, inaya ko si Mama na pumunta sa bandang kanto para bumili ng shake. Saktong dumaan yung mga kandidato, nahagisan kami ng 5 t-shirts. Lucky!
Tapos, ang pogi nung isang kandidato. Nagkatinginan pa kami. Lucky!
Tapos, ang bait nung Ate dun sa may shake, binigyan kami ng plastic lalagyanan ng t-shirt. Lucky!
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Will meet BFF tomorrow. They're here in PH until 11th. She lives in Malaysia. Sabi ko nood kami ng Untold, kaso wala na ata sa SM near us. Sayang. Siguro blessings na rin, since I'm already jumpy as is.
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Qpa Tokyo Expo happening on 25th. Nakita ko yung Happy Kuso Life, which is one of my favorite BLs na gawa ng favorite mangaka ko na si Harada. May 25th.
God, penging miracle, I want to go!
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Tita E, one of Dad's elder sisters was sent to the hospital yesterday. She's been in a pretty bad state for a while now, but it has gotten worse a few days back. Naglock daw yung mouth nya at di na makakain. And her bed sores have maggots na. She got 3 full-grown sons na may kanya kanyang family na. They are the ones taking care of her.
Naalala ko lang when Dad was hospitalized 13 years ago nung nastroke sya. Bro and I were in our late 20s lang nun. Sa totoo lang pampered kiddos talaga kami. But at that time, I felt like bigla kaming na force to become the adults we were.
Things were hard that time, pero it's a bit different than the usual hardship. I think it was the kind of hardship that makes you feel strong. Feeling ko lahat kakayanin ko at that time. Kahit yung kaartehan ko kinalimutan ko. Hindi ko rin naman talaga napansin yung hirap. Basta ang alam ko lang, grateful ako nun dahil nasa amin pa si Tatay. Siguro dahil kasama ko rin yung kapatid at nanay ko at that time. At sinoportahan din ako ng mga officemates ko. Pag nasa tough times ka, yung mga tao na kasama mo sa point na yun ng buhay mo, you can't help but appreciate their presence.
I wonder if Tita will make it pa. Or mas kinder ba if matapos nalang yung pain nya? Hindi ko alam. I hope that their family will find the strength to endure this trying times together. Sana maging maayos ang lahat for my Tita.
11:54 PMにcinderellaareus によって書かれました。
My heart says, "I wanna play BATTLE REALM". But the bills says, "no, you work your ass off".
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I know. If tinanggap po yung offer of that company, by now siguro e nakapag orientation na ko. Wala ng problema, meron ng stable income. Even I know that that decision should've made more sense. Totoo, hindi ko alam kung tama ba yung ginawa ko. Pero gaya ng dati, hindi parin naman ako nagsisisi. Siguro dahil part of me still believes na it will work out somehow. Na the Universe will send help and make things work out in the end.
Sa totoo lang, I dread going back to the corporate world again.
Sabi ni Tita, kung sya daw, hindi nya daw sasayangin ang mga opportunities lalo na't maraming tao ang nahihirapan humanap ng trabaho.
Alam ko. Alam ko naman e.
Pero alam mo, masaya ako na pwede akong gumising kung kelan ko gusto.
Na kasabay kong kumain sila mama at papa, at madalas na bagong luto ang pagkain.
Masaya ako sa mga simpleng bagay gaya ng pag bored kami, we can go like, "tara bili tayo ng shake", or something. Kahit na hindi ko na afford ang starbucks, feeling ko mas masarap pa yung nabibili namin sa malapit sa school for 85 pesos, overloaded na. Kahit nga yung 30 pesos na ice scramble na hindi masarap, masaya na ko.
Masaya rin ako na I can cuddle my cats whenever I want. And kahapon during thunderstorm, I was able to comfort them nung natatakot sila sa kulog. Hindi ko rin kinaingalang mag-alala sa traffic, or mabasa sa byahe twing umuulan.
Selfish siguro itong mga bagay na nagpapasaya sakin. Oo, alam ko naman. And I am taking responsibility sa lahat ng decisions ko.
I am going to give it my all. Then I will let the Universe take care of the rest.
11:27 AMにcinderellaareus によって書かれました。
Sa totoo lang, ang dami kong gagawin, but Dad wanted to have lunch at Tita's place (Mom's sister), since we needed to pickup the humongous langka (jack fruit) they were going to give us anyway. This scaredy cat was too afraid to be left alone in the house kaya sumama na ko.
My Tita's house is about 30 minutes ejeep + tricycle ride away. They have a big backyard with fruit-bearing trees, a wooden house, then a separate structure for their dirty kitchen, which is far from dirty.
Sa labas ng bahay kami kumain. Inihaw na bangus at tilapya. Maalinsangan and panahon, pero kahit may aircon sila sa bahay e sa labas kami kumain at nagkwentuhan. Nothing fancy, but I really love eating there.
Pag-uwi namin, saktong ejeep no. 6 yung nasakyan namin. Tito (Dad's brother) own that ejeep, and my cousin drives it. Nakalibre pa kami ng pamasahe.
Pagkauwi sa bahay, I told Mom I'd treat them dinner sa SM para di na magluto si Papa. This was my early mother's day treat na rin for Mom.
So, umalis kami ulet, ate, did some grocery shopping, then came across a neighbor who lives sa tawid lang namin. She offered to give us a ride back home since magkatapat lang bahay namin. Yay! Another free ride!
It may not be much, but I really felt lucky today—technically yesterday since is 12:55 AM already.
Ayoko magbyahe. Gusto ko lang mag stay sa bahay. Pero miss ko na magtravel.
But before that, Boy, I need to sleep.
12:59 AMにcinderellaareus によって書かれました。
