A friend said that she feels like she's falling out of love na with her husband. I asked if there's someone else. She said none, and that she's not interested with anyone at all. She said she's just tired.
It's one of my fears, you know. To wake up one day and realize you no longer want the person you chose.
I think she's tired because the husband doesn't know how to love her the way she needs to.
Know what, when I was young, I thought love was a feeling. As I grew older, I heard people saying that love is a decision. But as the conversation with my married friend progressed, I started thinking that maybe love is actually a skill.
I told the friend to tell the husband. I think he got to know. I mean, how else will you get better at loving when he's not aware that he's doing it wrongly in the first place? Pero alam ko, magiging mahirap ang ganung klaseng confrontation. Good luck sa friend ko.
October is fast approaching. I hope I'd get to keep my current shift.
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Written by cinderellaareus at 12:02 AM.